Pollinating anthurium reflexinervium?

Hi! Has anyone pollinated reflexinervium? I saved the pollen from one inflorescence last week and I have a second inflorescence coming up. I didn’t see the receptive stigma on the first (the sticky part) so I’m wondering if you would usually see the female first and then the pollen? Or is it the other way around? Also any tips on pollinating in general

Thanks